What a true statement!! Finding out that I have cancer was something that I hope no one hears themselves! I know many people have said that it shouldn’t be “You”!! I know they’re not wishing it on someone else… just simply wishing that this wasn’t true! I came to terms with it I think the same day I found out. I cried, my Mom was away on holidays so decided to keep it from her till she came home, but called my Dad and Muma (my stepmom) after crying and sharing the news and hanging up left me to realize … It is what it is…. I’ve prayed since I was little to die before my parents, and then the older you get more people you love you pray the same for them. So suddenly I was getting into a healthy routine, working out daily, no partying…. to only hear this… definitely had me thinking maybe God is listening and I am taking this for someone I love, and at that moment, I found something in me to just carry on… Who knows what is going to happen, but wishing my life wasn’t mine isn’t an option!!

No matter the situation in life, comparing yourself with someone takes a lot away from focusing on what You Do Have..!! Again something easier said then done… But is it,… that difficult if we just learned some new Tools, to help us along?! Today I hope everyone can take a minute and think of 3 things that you feel blessed with.. Family, your job, your fur baby… your Health… Let go of your feelings comparing your life to someone else’s … not everyone shares and documents the real life they are living… Remember to Find Love in Living your own life, and never give up!!